Would You Dump Her If She Got Too Fat
Posted: July 28th, 2011 | Author: Dr. Bill Stillwell | No Comments »Just sose u nose, the question wasn’t my idea. I’ve
been married for decades and I was the fattest one. I
saw this question posted on an internet news site
this morning, as I nibbled on some fresh cherries and
drank some green tea. Not wanting to get my better half in
a tizzy, I kept this question to myself, knowing that
I would have to write about it later.
Men have debated this question, among themselves,
ever since I can remember. I can clearly remember
this discussion on the playground in Brooklyn, when
I was almost a teenager. In those days, the vote was
always 100% yes. No fellow traveler wanted anything
to do with a fat girl.
The feeling remained almost exactly the same in
high school and then college. Then, everybody
started getting married, settling down, having children
and climbing the career ladder. At the same time all
that was happening, people’s bodies started to change.
Former cheerleaders and prom queens turned into
plus size models and the guys who had sixpacks
started toting kegs, while their hair fell out.
It wasn’t unusual to hear stories of guys who did
actually dump their wives, or girlfriends, because
they didn’t look like they did when they were sixteen.
I knew a fellow doctor who told me, straight out, that
he was leaving his wife, because she weighed 300
pounds.
What does all this mean?
For starters, it means we place a great deal of
attention on how we look. Secondly, we aren’t
very sympathetic to those who have become
Lardassians, over time. Third…as I wrote yesterday,
liberals want to tax fat people. (They’ll reject this
approach, as soon as they find out that the majority
of fat people are liberals.)
I think that in a relationship, it takes two people to
get fat. Even if the second party isn’t fat, they are
most often an enabler. They may not be shoving
too much grub down their own pie hole, but they are
often making it far too easy for their partner to do so.
Here’s an example. I know many couples where the
husband is a bit hefty. I’ve been out with such a group,
many times. Everybody orders food, the wife only eats
a bit and then offers the rest of her plate to her husband,
who only too happily finishes off the rest of the steak,
potatoes, pizza, pasta…ring the bell, if you had this happen
to you.
The solution isn’t to dump your partner…it’s to get fit
together. If you have a family, the same rule applies.
I can clue you in on how to get this done:
I’ll be back tomorrow with more.
With my best wishes for your optimum health,
Dr. Bill
Favorite Formulas
816 Turtle River Court
Plant City, FL 33567
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